7 Words Concepts

It’s so important to step back and consider things as they really are.

Consider this...

"Those who love deeply never grow old, they may die of old age, but they die young."

7 Words Works!

So to summarize, whether you’re looking for…

• Signs of a committed relationship
• Personality compatibility
• Personality by birthdate
• Zodiac personality profile
• Relationship compatibility by names
• What does my name say about my personality?
• Characteristics of a controlling personality

  ...or any other aspect of how personalities affect relationships, 7 Words can help

How? 

There are only 7 core gestures of communication - this is the essence of the 7 Words System - which states that in all the complexity of human relationships, the 7 primary words and 28 keywords are enough to explain everything that goes on between partners.   These words are the basic themes within all things—they convey the necessary stages that healthy exchanges go through because they are the foundation of all thoughts, ideas and behaviours. Their presence and use are signs of a committed relationship.

The 7 words can develop in us a mastery of communication that enables us to focus our minds, to speak our truth, and to thrive in all our relationships. Soon we find ourselves being more effective in all areas of life, as we come to experience an impeccable sense of what is happening and what is needed in any situation. This is true of so many aspects of life—from self-awareness, personal development, career guidance and business efficiency, to establishing and maintaining loving relationships, seeking cooperation, taking responsibility and enjoying all that life has to offer—because the system is universally applicable.  For example, it can be applied to explore and understand characteristics of a controlling personality, Sagittarius men in relationships, Scorpio female personality, and any other Zodiac personality profile.
 
Benefits can be gained from applying 7 Words in all the following areas and many other aspects of seeking signs of a committed relationship and living in loving relationships:

•         Individual identity
•         Opening up to new ideas about oneself and others
•         Appreciating your partner
•         Making decisions together
•         Joint visions and ventures
•         Apologizing
•         Staying excited and enthusiastic

Here is the fundamental suggestion behind 7 Words—that there are seven basic qualities of life experience, including personality profile and compatibility, which can be described by 7 primary words:
       

  The  keywords are very useful tools that can help us to find out what we may need to  do to rebalance the way we are in our partnerships. Certainly most of us can do  better than we are doing in relationship by giving the whole matter more  careful thought. First of all, we need to move out of ‘cloud cuckoo land’ and  bring ourselves back to reality. In the real world there are problems, there  are emotional upsets, there are misunderstandings, there is hurt, deceit,  mistrust—and so much else that gets in the way of our perfect happiness.  Many—and often the most painful—of these problems get triggered through  interaction with our ‘special other’. The sooner we acknowledge this, the  sooner we can get stuck into the challenge of dealing with the difficulties  that come up for us.

It is very much more productive  and enjoyable to approach these issues with curiosity than with anger and  blame—or even hurt and guilt. If either or both parties can maintain this  healthy attitude of loving curiosity, then most of the friction becomes  minimal. It’s also worth noticing whether the words you give to your lover are  more often supportive and appreciative or more negative and critical. We are  all likely to be negative at times—yet some of us do this most of the time.  Why? What’s that all about? Is it useful, productive communication or is it  just unloading because we can’t carry our own water?

Of course we need to be truthful  and we need occasionally to confront. Maybe we feel abused and want to say  ‘enough!’ That surely is healthy, as long as the message is presented without  violence—in other words with care not to hurt the other’s feelings  unnecessarily. Also, instead of having serious talks only about problems, it’s  helpful to spend time and energy repeatedly revisioning the match. What was the  original intention for our getting together—and how has this evolved until now?  Where are we going together now as a couple?

Of all the tips that are offered  on the secret of enjoying a good long-term healthy relationship, perhaps the  least well-received relates to taking more personal responsibility. Our partner  is not there to ‘make it better’, that’s Mum’s job when we’re young. Nor is our  partner there to look after our emotional security or pay the bills or to be  available for casual sex or to cook meals or protect us from harm. Isn’t it  great when they do these things! But really there is a deeper essential purpose  well beyond these things in value. Partners are there to reflect the truth of  who we really are. Face up to this and we’re well on the way to happiness. If  we learn to allow what happens and see it as a reflection of who we are rather  than who they are—then a great breakthrough can occur that most certainly will  have a major contribution to success and contentment in all areas of life.

 

If you have enjoyed this brief summary of 7 Words and would like to know more about how it can be applied in detail to improve relationships and other aspects of life in general...

  ...further information and suggestions are available in the form of free questionnaires, reports, eBooks, and other study material...

...and for even more detailed explanations and examples of 7 Words applications, try the workbook: 7 Words Principles and Practices.
   
  So we encourage you to use 7 Words to explore all of these:  

• Signs of a committed relationship
• Personality compatibility
• Personality by birthdate
• Zodiac personality profile
• Sagittarius men in relationships
• Scorpio female personality
• Relationship compatibility by names
• What does my name say about my personality?
• Characteristics of a controlling personality
• Chinese personality signs