7 Words Concepts

Images notwithstanding—who, actually, are we?

Consider this...

"It is very difficult and expensive to undo after you are married the things that your mother and father did to you while you were putting your first six birthdays behind you."

7 Words Works!

So whether you’re looking for …

• signs of a committed relationship
• signs of a commitment phobic man
• how to handle a commitment phobic
• fear of commitment
• dictionary meaning of commitment
• types of commitment
• what is lifetime commitment?

 
...or any other aspect of how personalities affect relationships, 7 Words can help

How?
There are only 7 core gestures of communication - this is the essence of the 7 Words System - which states that in all the complexity of human relationships, the 7 primary words and 28 keywords are enough to explain everything that goes on between partners. These words are the basic themes within all things—they convey the necessary stages that healthy exchanges go through because they are the foundation of all thoughts, ideas and behaviours. Their presence and use are signs of a committed relationship.

Benefits can be gained from applying 7 Words in all the following areas and many other aspects of seeking signs of a committed relationship and living in loving relationships:

•         Individual identity
•         Opening up to new ideas about oneself and others
•         Appreciating your partner
•         Making decisions together
•         Joint visions and ventures
•         Apologizing
•         Staying excited and enthusiastic

Here is the fundamental suggestion behind 7 Words—that there are seven basic qualities of life experience, including personality profile and compatibility, which can be described by 7 primary words:
       

The keyword for No are these:

Boundaries Identity Choice Truth 

Here\'s an extract from the e-book that specifically relates to choice:

In  the long term, our choices reflect our identity, and our continuous  experimentation with choice is a way of refining who we are. Relationship  offers a great way to explore and try things out. Life incorporates many  options and every day we are faced with various choices, each one taking us in  a particular direction. We may find this difficult, struggling to decide what  to do, what alternative to take, which path to follow. Without being able to  make clear choices, how can we be certain about who we really are? Then we’d  probably live in a confused state, unable to take action, weighed down by  ‘should I or shouldn’t I?’  If we can’t  choose, we may need to consider how deeply this weakness goes. It may well be  to do with being uncomfortable with individuality. Once we have a firm  identity, choice will be easier.

Some  people make decisions based on logical thinking and reasoning: the mind. Others  make their choices based on the heart. Which voice do we listen to most? Head  or heart? Perhaps the wisest choice is one that incorporates both the head and  the heart: to listen to the intuitive wisdom that speaks from within and also  to check it out against cold reason. Deep down, it is likely that we know what  the right choice for ourselves is. One little trick that comes in useful is to  walk backwards and forwards in a room, having set up two opposing walls to  symbolize ‘this’ or ‘that’. As we walk, eventually the body will feel a  difference—a preference—from which an intuitive awareness of ‘rightness’ can be  inferred. And if in doubt, since Yes pleases the body most of all, we can try  using the general rule that ‘Maybe means No’

  If you have enjoyed this brief summary of 7 Words - in this case to do with the primary word No and its keyword Choice - and would like to know more about how it can be applied in detail to improve relationships and other aspects of life in general...
 
..further information and suggestions are available in the form of free questionnaires, reports, eBooks, and other study material...

...  and for even more detailed explanations and examples of 7 Words applications, try the workbook: 7 Words Principles and Practices.
   
  So we encourage you to use 7 Words to explore all of these:

• Signs of a committed relationship
• signs of a commitment phobic man
• how to handle a commitment phobic
• fear of commitment
• dictionary meaning of commitment
• advice men fear of commitment
• types of commitment
• escalation of commitment
• virgo commitment relationships
• signs of commitment phobia
• what is lifetime commitment